01
We both have the same hand. Do spades win?
No. Suits never break a tie, and spades are not worth more than clubs. This is the most frequent argument in any home game and it comes from other card games, where one suit does outrank the rest. Poker has no trump suit: if both five card hands match, the pot is shared.
02
We both have a pair of kings
The higher side card wins. A pair is two cards, so three more are needed to complete the hand: you compare the highest of those three, then the next, then the last. The card that settles it is called the kicker.
03
What exactly is a kicker?
It is the card alongside your hand that decides a tie. If you have a pair of eights with an ace and the other player has a pair of eights with a king, you win on the ace. The kicker is not part of the pair, but it is part of your five cards, and that is why it counts.
04
We both have two pair
Compare the higher pair of each hand first. If those match, compare the second pair. If both pairs match, the fifth card decides. Kings and threes beat queens and jacks, because kings sit above queens and the comparison stops right there.
05
We both have a straight
The one that ends higher wins. A straight is five cards in a row, so you only need the top card of each: seven to jack beats six to ten. If both straights end on the same card they are identical and the pot is split.
06
We both have a flush
The highest card inside the flush wins, and if those match you carry on to the second, third and so on to the fifth. The suit of the flush is irrelevant: a club flush and a heart flush are compared only by their cards.
07
We both have a full house
The three of a kind decides first. A full house is three of a kind plus a pair, so you compare the trips and only look at the pair if both trips are the same rank. Three nines with two deuces beats three eights with two aces.
08
We both have three of a kind
The higher three of a kind wins. If both are the same rank, which only happens when the trips are entirely in the middle, you compare the two cards alongside, highest first and then the other.
09
The best hand is the five in the middle
Then the board plays and everyone still in the hand has the same hand. The pot is split equally between them. It does not happen often, but it happens, usually when the middle brings a complete straight or flush that nobody improves on.
10
Do I have to use both of my cards?
No. You use the best five of the seven available, wherever they come from. You can win using one of your cards, or none. This is specific to Texas Hold'em: other variants do require a fixed number of your own cards.
11
Ace, two, three, four, five: is that a straight?
Yes, and it is the lowest straight there is. It is the only moment in poker where the ace counts as a low card. What does not work is wrapping around: king, ace, two, three, four is nothing. A straight can start at the ace or end at the ace, but it cannot run through it.
12
A genuine tie: how is the pot split?
Equally between the players who tied. If a single chip is left over, it goes to whoever sits closest to the button on its left. That last part is a convention rather than a rule of the game, but it is the one used everywhere and it ends the argument.
13
Someone ran out of chips before the end
They can only win the part of the pot that existed when their last chip went in. Whatever the others bet after that goes into a separate pile, and that pile goes to the best hand among the players who paid it. One player can take the main pot while another takes the side pot.
14
They folded and it turns out they were winning
It makes no difference: folding loses the hand at that moment and there is no way back in. Those cards are out even if they were the best at the table, and they are not shown. Which is the reason to look properly before throwing a hand away.
15
Who shows their cards first?
The last player who bet or raised on the final round. If nobody bet on that round and everyone checked, the first player to the left of the button shows first. Anyone who can see they have lost may simply fold instead of showing, and loses the hand without revealing anything.